With support from St Vincent’s Hospice, James and Annmarie got the wedding day they thought they’d never have.
Your gift today can bring comfort in the darkest days, hope when it feels lost, and precious moments families will treasure forever.
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When James was diagnosed with metastatic prostate cancer, his world changed overnight.
At first, nurses from St Vincent’s Hospice visited James at home, helping manage his symptoms and bringing comfort during an incredibly difficult time.
But what James found at the hospice was so much more than medical care.
Soon after, James began attending hospice day services.
But he couldn’t have been more wrong.
As James’ illness progressed, everyday life became harder and harder.
The stairs in James’ flat became almost impossible to manage and he was struggling more every day.
But St Vincent’s Hospice never gave up on him.
The hospice team helped James access practical support, mobility equipment, benefits advice, housing support and emotional care – helping him and Ann Marie navigate some of the hardest days of their lives.
As James’ mobility worsened, the hospice team stepped in again – helping him secure a new accessible home after a long wait.
Then came something else that changed everything: an electric wheelchair.
The hospice also helped James and Annmarie through difficult conversations about the future – including legal affairs, practical planning and emotional support.
But then they did something James never believed would still be possible.
For years, James had talked about marrying Ann Marie.
But deep down, he thought they had run out of time.
The hospice team pulled together and made it happen.
James often described St Vincent’s Hospice as another big family.
James sadly died on 1 January 2026, surrounded by the people who loved him most.
But even after his death, the support from St Vincent’s Hospice continued for Annmarie through bereavement support, guidance and compassion during the darkest days of grief.
“St Vincent’s was James’ lifeline.
Living with terminal cancer was made so much better because of the unconditional support he received.
It gave him a far better quality of life – and that meant everything to us.
The nurses were excellent. Every one of them helped us get through each day.
They were so caring and helpful and always found a way to make us laugh.
We honestly can’t thank everyone enough for the difference they made to both our lives.”
Your support makes moments like these possible 💙
For James and Annmarie, St Vincent’s Hospice was so much more than medical care. It brought comfort through the hardest days, friendship when it was needed most, and helped make one of their most precious moments possible – their wedding day.
Even after James sadly passed away, the hospice continued to support Annmarie through her grief.
Care at St Vincent’s Hospice is free for families, but it’s only possible thanks to the generosity of people like you.
This Winter, your gift can help ensure:
Please give today and help St Vincent’s Hospice continue to be there for families when they need it most.
Every gift makes a difference. Thank you for helping families find comfort, compassion and support this Winter. 💙
“St Vincent’s was Jame’s lifeline.”
Whether you can give a little or a lot, please know this: your kindness can help families like James and Annmarie find comfort, compassion and support through the hardest days – and make precious moments possible when they matter most.
If you have any questions or would prefer to donate over the phone, our Fundraising Team is here to help on 01505 705635.
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